Let's then remind everyone what are the basic social skills that kids need to learn because they are the natural pathway to success. Most of those used to be taught by parents to their children and most of them were already acquired by the age of 12 in the past.
This list may help young parents to properly evaluate their own parental skills:
To follow directions
To thank
To share
To respect others' property
To ask permission to touch others' things
To return borrowed items in a timely manner
To understand personal space
To respect others personal boundaries
To regulate emotions
To use coping strategies
To use self-control
To deal with anger and frustration in a constructive way
To properly express feelings and emotions
To stay calm in times of stress
To deal with worries in a healthy way
To ask for advice and know which people are qualified to give it (recognize that friends are not usually the best people to give advice, but parents and, failing that, other trusted adults of the parents themselves).
To talk when it is their turn
To not interrupt when others are talking
To have a positive attitude
To show empathy
It is time to put an end to the modern saying that adolescence is now longer and to the mocking of the people of the past who were capable of training their children in this way.
To see someone else's perspective
To think about others feelings
To compromise
To apologize
To see how own actions could impact others for good or for bad
To deal with problems and conflicts without using violence
To brainstorm solutions to problems
To be a good loser in sports and games
To be a team player
To think before speaking
To think before acting
To properly express their ideas
To appreciate differences
To weigh options before choosing what to do
To understand what are the different choices on each situation
To understand the consequences that each choice might bring
To take responsibility for its own actions
To accept the consequences of its own actions
To be reflective
To acquire decision making skills
To develop healthy habits
To keep orderly their possessions
To cooperate with the household’s up-keeping
To keep themselves always clean and of pleasant appearance without the need of fancy clothes, being slave of fashions or dress and behave with affectation
To differentiate when and where each attire is the proper one
To value respectful simplicity above excess, immodesty and flashiness
To not be continually a burden to others but while learning when it is proper to ask for help and doing it without feeling ashamed or in hiding
To respect the rules of society without fear of going against society when it doesn't respect God's rules
To be responsible for their pets' needs
To clean after their pets
To know the health dangers each pet might bring and be cautious about
To respect that others might not like to be around own pet
To value self-respect but without selfishness and excess
To learn to stop manipulators and bullies
To fulfill own obligations and duties
To be a team worker
To build basic survival skills
To distinguish when others are in trouble and look for help
To recognize some need or troubles and render when knowing how
To be considerate of others’ needs
To protect the youngest and the weakest
To choose healthier over tastier foods and drinks
To not permanently mark or disfigure their bodies with things they might later regret
To respect one's own soul and the souls of others by avoiding places and companies that lead to sin.
To avoid drugs, alcohol, illegal and aggressive behavior and gang-related actions.
To treat others as we like to be treated.
To avoid vulgar language and the incorrect use of one's own language because it offends God and devalues our own social image and our being as beings made in the image of God.
And these are only basic social skills to which we must add the development of Christian virtues. Let us remember that there are many martyrs among children as young as 13 years old, and such a thing shows that this list, which seems to be long and impossible, is not really so.
It is time to put an end to the modern saying that adolescence is now longer and to the mocking of the people of the past who were capable of training their children in this way. Let's add that only 100 years ago almost all the children at this age already knew how to hunt, fish and manage to feed the family if the father was absent, and the girls already knew how to sew and knit their clothes and the family's clothes, besides ironing, cooking, etc. and they all read better, had good spelling...etc. Today we think too much about sending a rocket to Mars and handling robots and drones when children can no longer multiply and divide if they do not have a cell phone in their hands.
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